I am looking for suggestions here. I am a fairly large statured man and my wife is somewhat small. Any longun that fits me is too big for her , and the rifles shotguns that she shoots have all been shortend to fit her and are nearly unusable by me. I discovered recently that handguns present a similar problem. I own two taurus revolvers a 617 and a 66. She has shot both but finds them uncomfortable as the grips are far too big for her hands. Most of the gun stores around me don't seem to stock smaller revolvers that look anything like what she wants. I have several questions for the forum as a result. First, is there anyway that replacing the grips on one of the revolvers I already own would be workable, or is the frame itself way too big? Second does anyone have any sugestions for what models she should look at? She is comfortable with 357 level recoil and wants a gun she can shoot pretty regularly. She doesn't like the pink sub compact guns the guy at the gunstore always tries to show her. She likes the guns I have but her thumb goes numb shooting them.